I also think my dad would be reminding me that kids โ more than anything else โ need to know their parents love them. Their parents don't have to be alive for that to happen.
Randy PauschWhen you see yourself doing something badly and nobody's bothering to tell you anymore, that's a very bad place to be. Your critics are the ones telling you they still love you and care.
Randy PauschGive yourself permission to dream. Fuel your kids' dreams too. Once in a while, that might even mean letting them stay up past their bedtimes.
Randy PauschThe person who failed often knows how to avoid future failures. The person who knows only success can be more oblivious to all the pitfalls.
Randy PauschFind the best in everybody. Wait long enough, and people will surprise and impress you. It might even take years, but people will show you their good side. Just keep waiting.
Randy Pauscheducators best serve students by helping them be more self-reflective. The only way any of us can improveโas Coach Graham taught meโis if we develop a real ability to assess ourselves. If we canโt accurately do that, how can we tell if weโre getting better or worse?
Randy PauschI am going to keep having fun every day I have left, because there is no other way of life. You just have to decide whether you are a Tigger or an Eeyore.
Randy PauschThe most difficult part of writing a book is not devising a plot which will captivate the reader. It's not developing characters the reader will have strong feelings for or against. It is not finding a setting which will take the reader to a place he or she as never been. It is not the research, whether in fiction or non-fiction. The most difficult task facing a writer is to find the voice in which to tell the story.
Randy PauschIt's very important to know when you're in a pissing match. And it's very important to get out of it as quickly as possible.
Randy PauschAnd even though I did not reach the National Football League, I sometimes think I got more from pursuing that dream, and not accomplishing it, than I did from many of the ones I did accomplish.
Randy PauschA coach yells at the kid he thinks can improve but the coach will not yell at the kid who he/she knows won't.
Randy PauschEveryone has to contribute to the common good. To not do so can be described in one word: selfish.
Randy PauschIโd compare college tuition to paying for a personal trainer at an athletic club. We professors play the roles of trainers, giving people access to the equipment (books, labs, our expertise) and after that, it is our job to be demanding.
Randy PauschIf you can find your footing between two cultures, sometimes you can have the best of both worlds.
Randy PauschTake Time Out. It's not a real vacation if you're reading email or calling in for messages.
Randy PauschProper apologies have three parts: 1) What I did was wrong. 2) I feel badly that I hurt you. 3) How do I make this better?
Randy PauschWhen you're frustrated with people, when they've made you angry, it just may be because you haven't given them enough time.
Randy PauschNo job should, be beneath us. And if you can't(or won't) sort mail, Where is the proof that you can do anything?
Randy PauschThere's a limit to how many times you can read how great you are and what an inspiration you are, but I'm not there yet.
Randy PauschMy colleague told me: "It took a long time, but I finally figured it out. When it comes to men who are romantically interested in you, it's really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do.
Randy PauschThe key question to keep asking is, Are you spending your time on the right things? Because time is all you have.
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