I don't believe in the no-win scenario

Advice is very easy to give, and even easier not to follow, so I don't fool with it.

You may not want to hear it, but your critics are often the ones telling you they still love you and care about you, and want to make you better.

You can't get there alone. People have to help you, and I do believe in karma. I believe in paybacks. You get people to help you by telling the truth, by being earnest.

Be good at something. It makes you valuable. Have something to bring to the table, because that will make you more welcome.

You can't control the cards you're dealt, just how you play the hand.

There are respectful, considerate things that can be done in life that will be appreciated by the recipient, and only good things can result.