There are respectful, considerate things that can be done in life that will be appreciated by the recipient, and only good things can result.
Randy PauschWe don't beat the reaper by living longer, but by living well, and living fully - for the reaper will come for all of us. The question is: what do we do between the time we're born and the time he shows up.
Randy Pauschsomehow, with the passage of time, and the dealines that life imposes, surrending became the right thing to do
Randy Pausch