Complaining advertizes your fears.
Being willing makes you able.
Let go of what you think life should be so you can experience the life you have.
...risk is one of the keys that move you from fear to freedom.
When your commitment is to be loving regardless of the circumstances, there is no room for harsh words. You assert yourself not from a desire to control but from a desire to stand for who you are.
The words you say to yourself create your self image.