We find things where we look for them.
How do you tell an optimist that he or she has lived a happy life by mistake?
Sometimes in tragedy we find our life's purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus.
I have never met anyone who wanted to save the world without my financial support.
Sometimes love needs a rest from caring, and so bears for an intolerable few hours the guilt of not caring.
So often the end of a love affair is death by a thousand cuts, so often its survival is life by a thousand stitches.