Bullies are masters at holding others responsible for their misbehavior. Instead of claiming "the devil made me do it", they argue "You made me do it".
I have never met an author who was sorry he or she wrote a book. They are only sorry they did not write it sooner.
Books in your head help no one.
If they can't repeat it, they didn't get it.
A closed mouth gathers no feet.
Anyone who consistently makes you feel bad is not helping you get better.