Entertainment has seduced us into believing that we have a chance to live the life they live in the movies. Even the people in the movies don't live that life. It doesn't take 135 minutes to make a life, it takes almost a century. Everything doesn't depend on what happens in the next ninety seconds. Ever.

Why do we value leadership, connection and grace? Because it's scarce, and that scacity creates value.

The internet was supposed to homogenize everyone by connecting us all. Instead what it's allowed is silos of interest.

Don’t be different just to be different. Be different to be better.

What we most need in our lives, though, is something worth doing, worth it because we care.

It’s okay. Let your ego push you to be the initiator. But tell your ego that the best way to get something shipped is to let other people take the credit. The real win for you (and your ego) is seeing something get shipped, not in getting the credit when it does.

Decide, before you start, that you're going to change three things about what you do all day at work. Then, as you're reading, find the three things and do it. The goal of the reading, then, isn't to persuade you to change, it's to help you choose what to change.