For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men the road trip on the way to the destination is often the most fun.
Men control the world, but women control the men.
If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.
Men see how you dress, and then make assumptions about your relationship potential.
The nice girl makes the mistake of being available all the time.
A little bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think.