Anything a person chases in life runs away.
When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.
With a woman he's crazy about, he'll put in all the overtime in the world. He'll be doing things for you, he'll be considerate, he'll want to please you, he'll try to cheer you up if you are down, and he will enjoy every moment because you are the person he values most.
The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.
Agree with everything, explain nothing, then do what is best for you.
If someone else doesn't like your confidence, that's their problem. Why? You always come before they do, that's why.