The best way to make room for both life and career is to make choices deliberately-to set limits and stick to them.

I feel really grateful to the people who encouraged me and helped me develop. Nobody can succeed on their own.

We cannot change what we are not aware of, and once we are aware, we cannot help but change.

But the upside of painful knowledge is so much greater than the downside of blissful ignorance.

Speak up. Believe in yourself. Take risks.

I gave a talk on gender stuff at Facebook one morning and a man didn't come. It was optional; he didn't have to come. But he sent a note saying, "I missed your meeting because I drove my kids to school so my wife could do something else. Thank you for making that possible." I think that employee is a loyal employee for Facebook and I think more companies should want that kind of loyalty.

Excel and you will get a mentor.