I really felt neurotic - it was a neurotic reason - but I had to teach very, very well. That sucked up a lot of oxygen from my time and my creative thinking.
Shirley Geok-lin LimThere are a couple of poems I've written with masculine muses, very often the muse to me is a female.
Shirley Geok-lin LimEven after the mothering dropped because my son grew up, the writing - the muse - was always the third wheel, the lowest on the priority list.
Shirley Geok-lin LimAt a certain point, the struggles with teaching and mothering and so on and so forth, those decline, those lessen.
Shirley Geok-lin LimI also wanted to be like my brothers, physically, and yet not physically. So I would constantly - and I think nowadays it's taken for granted that this is what girlfriends do - I would constantly wear their shorts, put on their shirts. That did not seem odd because we were desperately poor for quite a while. It wasn't as if pretty little girlie things were available to me.
Shirley Geok-lin Lim