I also wanted to be like my brothers, physically, and yet not physically. So I would constantly - and I think nowadays it's taken for granted that this is what girlfriends do - I would constantly wear their shorts, put on their shirts. That did not seem odd because we were desperately poor for quite a while. It wasn't as if pretty little girlie things were available to me.
Shirley Geok-lin LimThe poem might come to you as you're preparing to teach a lecture, right? And when you say, "no" to that occasion, that poem is gone.
Shirley Geok-lin LimI don't really get into the power sufficiently, and that's also a problem for me.
Shirley Geok-lin Lim