You can't say: This much love is worth this much misery. They're not opposites that cancel each other out; they're both true at the same time.
SoniaMy mom used to say, โYou cannot experience what you cannot imagine ... yet you always experience what you do imagine.
SoniaI war running back to the house in Mayaguez with a melting ice cone we called a piraqua running sweet and sticky down my face and arms, the sun in my eyes, breaking through clouds and glinting off the rain-soaked pavement and dripping leaves. I was running with joy, an overwhelming joy that arose simply from gratitude for the fact of being alive. Along with the image, memory carried these words from a child's mind through time: I am blessed. In this life I am truly blessed.
SoniaDressing badly has been a refuge much of my life, a way of compelling others to engage with my mind, not my physical presence. Page. 283
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