My mom used to say, “You cannot experience what you cannot imagine ... yet you always experience what you do imagine.
SoniaThere is indeed something deeply wrong with a person who lacks principles, who has no moral core. There are, likewise, certainly values that brook no compromise, and I would count among them integrity, fairness, and the avoidance of cruelty. But I have never accepted the argument that principle is compromised by judging each situation on its own merits, with due appreciation of the idiosyncrasy of human motivation and fallibility.
SoniaYou can't say: This much love is worth this much misery. They're not opposites that cancel each other out; they're both true at the same time.
Sonia