The great trick with a woman is to get rid of her while she think's she's rid of you.
Soren KierkegaardIn order to help another effectively, I must understand what he understands. If I do not know that, my greater understanding will be of no help to him... instruction begins when you put yourself in his place so that you may understand what he understands and in the way he understands it.
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