What helps most is remembering that such a cry or attack or sly blow is a reflection of that other personโs inner state; it is not an omniscient summary of you. Your reaction reflects your own inner state, and that can tell you which aspects of your own inner world are needy of attention. p.291
Stephanie DowrickWhat helps most is remembering that such a cry or attack or sly blow is a reflection of that other personโs inner state; it is not an omniscient summary of you. Your reaction reflects your own inner state, and that can tell you which aspects of your own inner world are needy of attention. p.291
Stephanie DowrickIt is precisely in relationships of intimacy that your craziness (and mine) will be hardest to conceal.
Stephanie DowrickI have been using the word 'other' as though it were self-explanatory, yet who the 'other' is must always be something of a mystery. It is a mystery at an immediate level in the sense that no person is entirely knowable.
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