Don't cheat people of their growth. Empower them to solve problems and generate ideas. Watch them grow!
Priority is a function of context.
What you do has far greater impact than what you say.
The great apparent dichotomy is that the more we give, the more we get.
I see myself living by correct principles and accomplishing worthy purposes. One of my favorite quotes is, "The greatest battles of life are fought out every day in the silent chambers of one's own soul." (David O. McKay).
Creating a warm, caring, supportive, encouraging environment is probably the most important thing you can do for your family.