The reflection of the current social paradigm tells us we are largely determined by conditioning and conditions.
Stephen CoveyReactive people... are often affected by their physical environment. They find external sources to blame for their behavior.
Stephen CoveyBefore a performance, a sales presentation, a difficult confrontation, or the daily challenge of meeting a goal, see it clearly, vividly, relentlessly, over and over again. Create an internal "comfort zone". Then, when you get into the situation, it isn't foreign. It doesn't scare you.
Stephen Covey