Like everything in life, it is not what happens to you but how you respond to it that counts.
Just identify the very first physical action you need to take, and do it.
Trust in your own beliefs or succumb to the influence of others'.
Success is virulent. Once you get the bug then it's in you.
Share your aspirations only with those who will support you, not those who will respond with doubt or lack of interest.
The way forward is to stop pestering yourself for answers and let it, the creative part of your mind, come up with the solution when the time is right.