Mix with positive-minded people as a means to tap into your unexploited potential.
When you think a positive thought, you become positive.
A mind filled with negative thoughts makes you feel miserable and inadequate and will lead to failure after failure no matter how hard you try to succeed.
Success is virulent. Once you get the bug then it's in you.
If you are able to focus unswervingly on your goals, then all that you desire will become yours.
It is never about who is right or wrong, it is about what is best.