Your needs will be met once you can find a way of projecting energy and fulfilling someone else's need.
Do things the ego does not like to do.
It is important that the female develops a reality that honors and nurtures her femininity and has an identity and creativity of her own. It is equally important that the male in the relationship endorses that creativity.
The ego needs recognition. The spirit does not need to thank itself.
Man is basically an individual molecule of the God-Force.
Be different - without concern for what others think.