To a surrounded enemy, you must leave a way of escape.
Attack him where he is unprepared, appear where you are not expected.
If the enemy opens the door, you must race in.
A kingdom that has once been destroyed can never come again into being; nor can the dead ever be brought back to life.
Invincibility lies in the defense; the possibility of victory in the attack.
Generally in war the best policy is to take a state intact; to ruin it is inferior to this.