I get a lot of letters from introverts asking how they can meet people. The key is to make sure that you are doing things you enjoy.

I actually find extroversion to be a really appealing personality style.

...true self-esteem comes from competence, not the other way around.

I get a lot of letters from introverts asking how they can meet people. The key is to make sure that you are doing things you enjoy.

Should we become so proficient at self-presentation that we can dissemble without anyone suspecting?

Introverts .. may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas.

In most job interviews, people say they are looking for people skills and emotional intelligence. That's reasonable, but the question is, how do you define what that looks like?