Women were also urged to work on a mysterious quality called 'fascination.' Coming of age in the 1920's was a competitive business.
Susan CainWe put too much of a premium on presenting and not enough on substance and critical thinking.
Susan CainIt's not that there is no small talk...It's that it comes not at the beginning of conversations but at the end...Sensitive people...'enjoy small talk only after they've gone deep' says Strickland. 'When sensitive people are in environments that nurture their authenticity, they laugh and chitchat just as much as anyone else.
Susan Cain