Ask yourself: Does the job touch my heart and feed my soul? You will never be what you were meant to be if you aren't having fun.

When I first met Jack, I was terrified of him. I wasn't expecting a fun, laughing, enjoyable, exciting guy. I walked into his office like most people, with my knees knocking together. I was scared.

We are perfectionists. We are hungry to work all the time. We are entertained by every aspect of business and we never want to stop working.

Embedded reputations - that's one of the most daunting dynamics that can happen. You start as a secretary, or assistant, and you have that plastered on your forehead. My advice is that you have to do something - change companies, get a degree, or go to a training program. Or ask to be on a very hard assignment or project that no one else wants. You can do it, but it doesn't happen without true exertion.

Just keep asking questions. Does this job allow me to be myself? Does it make me smarter? Does it open doors? Does it represent a compromise I accept? Does it touch my inner being?

You've got to dig in [and learn about things you don't know] if you want to stay in the conversation.

Business is business and politics is politics and never between shall meet.