Find fault, when you must find fault, in private, if possible; and some time after the offense, rather than at the time.
Sydney SmithA great deal of talent is lost to the world for the want of a little courage. Every day sends to their graves a number of obscure men who have only remained obscure because their timidity has prevented them from making a first effort; and who, if they could only have been induced to begin, would in all probability have gone great lengths in the career of fame.
Sydney Smith