A newborn already has nine months of experience when she is born.

Parents don't make mistakes because they don't care, but because they care so deeply.

Grandparents who want to be truly helpful will do well to keep their mouths shut and their opinions to themselves until these are requested.

A grandchild is a miracle, but a renewed relationship with your own children is even a greater one.

Attachment to a baby is a long-term process, not a single, magical moment. The opportunity for bonding at birth may be compared to falling in love - staying in love takes longer and demands more work.

A pregnant woman and her spouse dream of three babies--the perfect four-month-old who rewards them with smiles and musical cooing,the impaired baby, who changes each day, and the mysterious real baby whose presence is beginning to be evident in the motions of the fetus.

You learn more from your mistakes than you do from your successes.