I'm telling you, you did what you believed you had to do through all of this. Not what was easiest or best for you. You did what you did, and you're owning it. And I don't know ten men who would be brave enough to do that.
Tami HoagWe never know the quality of someone else's life, though we seldom resist the temptation to assume and pass judgement.
Tami HoagMinnesotans hate zeal. Zeal is right up there on the list of suspicious emotional behaviors like joy and despair. Always err on the side of blandness.
Tami HoagThey don't matter. I thought I had to prove something, and I did, to myself. There's nothing left for me to prove. I can move on with my life.
Tami HoagThe horse world is populated by two kinds of people: those who love horses, and those who exploit horses and the people who love them.
Tami HoagFamily was a fertile breeding ground for the kind of psychological bacteria that warped minds and devoured hope.
Tami HoagShe had the kind of looks that had probably been quite pretty in high school, but were now worn down by years of smoking cigarettes, raising children, and the disappointment of being married to an asshole.
Tami HoagWe do the best we can," she said softly, looking inward. "And punish ourselves for it. I've tried to make my choices with the idea that I've made those choices for the greatest good. Sometimes someone suffers in the process, but I made the decision for the right reason. That should count for something, shouldn't it?
Tami HoagBut then I had long mistaken being spoiled for being strong, being defiant for being independent, being reckless for being brave.
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