Discovering a richer quality of being-ness means to keep surrendering and letting go of resistance.
Tara BrachOur kids go to school and they come out feeling not intelligent, not desirable, not attractive or appealing to others.
Tara BrachThe fear side can have us pull away and protect us, but it's really a withdrawal, a disassociation, a cutting off. Rather than the word detachment, I usually use the word non-attachment. That can be wholesome when we care and are completely engaged with each other but are not attached to things being a certain way.
Tara Brach