In a monastic setting, if someone doesn't want to obey the rules and just wants to live the way they've always lived as a lay person, then why did they become ordained? They have no sense that they have to give something up to gain so much.

In one way I would like to teach, but I have no qualifications to teach Westerners.

I think many monks hesitate to change things.

There is a tremendous rise now in feminine awareness and wishing for equality, equal opportunities.

If you want to be a doctor, you may say, There are all these beings, they're sick, they're dying, I've got to go out and help them. And so you grab a bag full of scalpels and medicine and rush off. Even though your motivation is very pure, you end up harming beings because you don't know what you're doing.

To want not to want, you'll tie yourself in knots. So this is why the Tibetans always say, just relax the mind and open.

We do look for inspiration amongst our own sex. Why not? You go into temples and they're full of all the lineage lamas who are male. What message does that give to a young girl, except that somehow she got trapped in the wrong body because of bad things she did in a past life?