Obviously being relaxed doesn't mean that you make no effort.

My mother's love was really not based on attachment. Her love was genuine love. To make me happy, not how I will make her happy.

The answer lies within ourselves. If we can't find peace and happiness there, it's not going to come from the outside.

If you just follow your inner calling, then you just go ahead.

The Tibetans are good at learning many skillful ways to show that everything we do becomes dharma practice, depending on which kind of approach we use.

When Tibetan lamas die they stay in a realization of clear light nature of the mind for several days or weeks.

Keep your practice very simple and don't be too ambitious.