All of us are playing roles, and there's nothing wrong with playing roles because we have to live in this world - the problem is only when we believe in those roles.
As women become more educated and confident, they can start adding their voice.
The Buddha always emphased the important of good friends.
We do have the precious opportunity of this human life.
There are other ways of benefiting than by being a recognized tulku and sitting on a throne.
I don't know why I got reborn as a female. Maybe in my past life I had some sympathy or something for women, but I certainly wasn't a female last time.