If you just follow your inner calling, then you just go ahead.
On a relative level where we live, we need to have a sense of identity, otherwise we'd fall apart, wouldn't we?
I think we females have a lot of work to do for each other.
Basically, I feel to spend the rest of my life doing retreat.
You see people swimming, and you think, oh, how wonderful to swim. But most people stand on the edge swaying back and forth, afraid to jump. They don't think they can swim.
People get very deep experiences and they think they're enlightened. That's not enlightenment, that's just some realization.