Integrity reveals beauty.
Grant people a lifetime of forgiveness before you even meet them.
To be efficient means getting the job done in a smart, resourceful and timely way. To be effective means getting the right job done well, efficiently or not.
When you spend your days doing what fulfills you, you are attractive.
Remind people who they are instead of just complimenting them on what they've done.
Commitment is what your boss needs you to have. Choice is what you need to have.