There is no one best way for parents to become the parents they want to be just as there is no one best way for a child to grow into a contented and contributing member of society.

Demonstrating faith and optimism in the child or adolescent's ability to work things out in their own time and in their own way can be very difficult but it is possible to do this while also offering assistance.

Sometimes offering support and making yourself available when the child or adolescent is ready to talk can be the most helpful you can be.

A parenting program should provide time for parents to clarify their own ideas about what it means to be an effective and successful parent.

Attitudes of optimism, of "let them be", and of joy in watching and helping another life develop and blossom will help parents relish their parenting role and will provide the resilience necessary to navigate turbulent times.

Parents typically don't talk to each other about their goals and attitudes to parenting but this type of conversation could be very useful for helping parents become clearer about the things that are important to them.

I can’t even take a stroll through a park. As soon as women see my face they start gathering up their children and running for home.