Proper wedding vows are more a promise of mutually binding future love than a declaration of your present love.
Timothy KellerFalling in love in a Christian way is to say,'I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I'm signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It's going to be hard but I want to get there.
Timothy Keller