Memory is funny. Once you hit a vein the problem is not how to remember but how to control the flow.
Tobias WolffTo be a writer you need to see things as they are, and to see things as they are you need a certain basic innocence.
Tobias WolffBecause I don't have to be careful of people's feelings when I teach literature, and I do when I'm teaching writing.
Tobias WolffKnowing that everything comes to an end is a gift of experience, a consolation gift for knowing that we ourselves are coming to an end. Before we get it we live in a continuous present, and imagine the future as more of that present. Happiness is endless happiness, innocent of its own sure passing. Pain is endless pain.
Tobias Wolff