Memory is funny. Once you hit a vein the problem is not how to remember but how to control the flow.
Tobias WolffOur memories tell us who we are and they cannot be achieved through committee work, by consulting other people about what happened. That doesn't mean that at all times memories are telling us the absolute truth, but that the main source of who we are is that memory, flawed or not.
Tobias WolffYou felt it as a depth of ease in certain boys, their innate, affable assurance that they would not have to struggle for a place in the world; that is already reserved for them.
Tobias WolffTime, which is your enemy in almost everything in this life, is your friend in writing.
Tobias Wolff