Humor has become so cliche and boring that nothing's funny anymore unless it involves something totally disgusting that offends somebody or makes them feel really uncomfortable.
If you try to fix violence with violence, you do NOTHING but create violence.
Most bands, if something goes wrong, they cower and walk off stage and fire people.
Do what you like and do it honestly.
I might be a dork, but I don't want to be a jerk.
I used to get so jealous if my wife liked another band more than my own. Come to think of it, I still do.