There are no unresourceful people, only unresourceful states.
Just because someone seems to have more certainty, doesn't mean they're right.
Begin to live as though your prayers are already answered.
You're far more likely to lose the weight and keep it off if you lose slowly, perhaps ½ to 1 pound a week, exercise moderately, and find that replacement for comfort, connection, and control. That's a doable long-term plan.
Life happens not to me but for me
Identify your problems but give your power and energy to solutions