Find a great role model, perhaps someone who struggled and only really succeeded when older. Their biography and what they've done differently from you will help you. If such a person is willing to mentor you or at least allow you to work around them, great.
Tony RobbinsIf you ever hear yourself or anyone you care about starting to express the belief that a problem is permanent, itโs time to immediately shake that person loose. No matter what happens in your life, youโve got to be able to believe, 'This, too, shall pass,' and that if you keep persisting, youโll find a way.
Tony Robbins