You can’t hit a target if you don’t know what it is.
If you are going to succeed, you must deal with what caused you to fail
High self-esteem comes from feeling like you have control over events not that events have control over you.
Right now you can make a decision, ... If you truly decided to, you can do almost anything. So if you don't liike the current relationship you're in, make the decision now to change it. If you don't like your current job, change it.
Put yourself in a state of mind where you say to yourself
All decision-making is a values-clarifying exercise.