What we link to pleasure and what we link to pain determines our destiny.
No one ever achieved a goal by being interested in its achievement. One must be committed.
The person with the most certainty in a given situation will influence the other.
For many people, food is a source of comfort, connection, and control.
The most powerful force in the human psyche is people's need for their words and actions to stay consistent with their IDENTITY - how we define ourselves.
To me, words are like stickpins. I can throw a word at you and it will bounce right off your body. But if I take that little stickpin and wire it to the back of an iron bar called human emotion, I can put that thing right through your heart.