The person with the most certainty in a given situation will influence the other.

Well, I'd love to make a decision like that, but I'm not sure how I could change my life.

If you don't make a decision about how you are going to live, then you have already made a decision, haven't you?

Have you ever said, 'I can't do that! I'm just not like that!'? If you've ever used this phrase, you've hit the boundary of how you've defined yourself in the past, and it's affecting the quality of your present-day life. Ask yourself, 'Where did these beliefs about who I am come from, and how old are they?' Maybe it's time to update your identity.

Focus on execution rather than just the idea.

See things the way they are not worse than they are

What people CAN do is very different from what they WILL do.