I used to be, like, "Sleep when I die."
Break through the bonds of your past.
The only real security in life comes from knowing that every single day you are improving yourself in some way.
What we can or cannot do, what we consider possible or impossible, is rarely a function of our true capability. It is more likely a function of our beliefs about who we are.
Pain is part of life. Suffering is an option.
Don't surround yourself with people who just affirm you. Surround yourself with people who challenge you.