When women hold off from marrying men, we call it independence. When men hold off from marrying women, we call it fear of commitment.

Throughout my life I have always been amazed that people couldn't listen to other people, that they couldn't hear their best intent, that there seemed to be an enormous need to demonize.

And we reduce almost all male-female problems by working on both the female and the male. And that usually means having both sexes take responsibility.

In the past quarter century, we exposed biases against other races and called it racism, and we exposed biases against women and called it sexism. Biases against men we call humor.

Let's face it: men do a lot of things in the workplace that women just don't do.

Men move through a much different process before commitment than women do.

I don't think there's anything that is a greater area of discrimination against women today than the fact that nowhere in the world is there a female role model in team sports that more than half of a general audience would recognize