You can't choose up sides on a round world.
You'll see it when you believe it.
Enjoying life is far superior to being graded on your performance in life.
You never need to defend yourself or your desires to anyone, as those inner feelings are Spirit speaking to you. Those thoughts are sacred, so don't ever let anyone trample on them.
You are an infinite spiritual being having a temporary human experience.
I am a realist. I expect miracles.