Conflict is a violation of harmony. If you participate in it, you're part of the problem, not the solution.
Remember that your natural state is joy.
Surround yourself with people who are doers!
You are not stuck where you are unless you decide to be.
Send Love in Some Form to those you Believe have Wronged you, & Notice How Much Better you Feel
Each person must decide for himself what he wants each day. As a leader, I will expose you to the options and the likely consequences of those options. I'll even share my opinion if asked, but I'll never confuse it with the opinion, which simply doesn't exist.