When you're talking to a person, it only matters what they are perceiving. You only need them to perceive you as a loving husband. You don't necessarily need to be one. That's always a good road, if you actually are one. But what people are perceiving will dictate what their life is, and ultimately what your interaction is.
Will SmithI know who I am, I know what I believe, that's all I need to know. From there, you do what you need to do.
Will SmithStop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings and emotions
Will Smith