Transition is the natural process of disorientation and reorientation that marks the turning points in the path of growth...transitions are key times in the natural process of self-renewal

It isn't the changes that do you in, it's the transitions.

Change comes more from managing the journey than from announcing the destination

Change is an event but a transition is the process that you go through in response to the change.

Much as we may wish to make a new beginning, some part of us resists doing so as though we were making the first step toward disaster.

Treating ourselves like appliances that can be unplugged and plugged in again at will or cars that stop and start with the twist of a key, we have forgotten the importance of fallow time and winter and rests in music. We have abandoned a whole system of dealing with the neutral zone through ritual, and we have tried to deal with personal change as though it were a matter of some kind of readjustment.

We resist transition not because we can't accept the change, but because we can't accept letting go of that piece of ourselves that we have to give up when and because the situation has changed.