The novel leads you places that you never could have gotten to otherwise.
I'm not sure if you're the person for me any more.
A writer's duty is to register what it is like for him or her to be in the world.
I just realized quite early on that I'm not going to be the type who can write a novel every two years. I think you need to feel an urgency about the act. Otherwise, when you read it, you feel no urgency, either. So I don't write unless I really feel I need to, and that's a luxury.
The object of the passion is just an accessory to the passion itself.
The arena of women's lives is somewhat more intimate. If a woman goes out with an incredibly attractive man and they break up, that woman is not more attractive to men. It's completely irrelevant to them. That's an example of the way women's minds work.