Of course motivation is not permanent. But then, neither is bathing; but it is something you should do on a regular basis.
You can disagree without being disagreeable.
You must manage yourself before you can lead someone else.
What you feed your mind determines your appetite.
The problem with pity parties is very few people come, and those who do don't bring presents.
You will make a lousy anybody else, but you will be the best "you" in existence.